tnx for the help. I havent managed to find anyone alive on IRC, but the account miraculously started working again.
Perhaps my email sent to the webmaster helped or maybe someone read this post. Who knows.
Anyway...what I did find out was that if you are using POP to access google you dont receive any emails that google thinks are spam. Needless to say emails from my GF were in the spam folder
No filehaven mail there though.